I need advice........................…

Me and my bf have been 2gthr for 10 yrs. We have a daughter 2gthr. We dated for 2 yrs then had our daughter. Everything was fine then it just started goin dwn hill. He started to be selfish and tell me that the housewrk is "womens work"!!! LMFAO last i new it was plain old housework. We both wrk same schedule so we have time to hang out and spend time 2gthr. So i knw thats not it. Recently i told him if stuff don't change im leavin. I don't wana deal with this crap i love him but he shows no affection or care what so ever. I feel like his roomate not gf. I tell him this stuff and he just says quit ur b*tchin....he doesnt ever express himself or talk bout stuff or anything. I can't do this much longer it takes 2 to tango and i don't need to be doin this by myself. Some advice would be nice.